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Suicide prevention

berbaby09 — Fri, 18 Dec 2009 19:22:04 +0000

No one wants to their loved one to die. They want to go before their loved ones. Though when they willingly go it is much harder than, someone who didn’t get a choice in the matter. A person who dies of natural causes or in an accident is easier to accept because you know there is nothing that could have changed the outcome for them. Though when your loved one dies of suicide you think there is something you should have done, or could have done and then there would have been a different outcome. Plus, you have to live with the psychological disorders you may get from wanting to understand what happened so badly. When it is an accident it is much easier to understand and to learn how to cope with what is going on.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=L_Ir2_47_LI

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kgJh7p79ons

What isn’t suicide

berbaby09 — Fri, 18 Dec 2009 13:27:37 +0000

Though someone instantly dyeing in an accident is just as horrible and dreadful it is not suicide. This still leaves a family hurt and upset, but they know that the person didn’t willingly leave them. They are hurt but aren’t left with the psychological trauma those family members of someone who committed suicide. Although it is still a tough time and it’s always hard to lose someone you love it is a lot different than suicide. There are still questions that you want answers to but they aren’t the same. You still hurt and want answers but you aren’t left with the thought that you could have saved them had you only known that’s what they were thinking.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z-pkWy3amRE

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PRmTKobXfPk

Someone being deathly ill and dying is still different than suicide. When someone is deathly ill you have time to think about what could happen. The sick person is fighting for their life until the very end and you know they didn’t willingly leave you. Especially if they took every treatment or medicine they could and it still didn’t work.

The death penalty isn’t suicide because you are not killing yourself. Someone else has control over that even though you did something to end up there. Whether it is lethal injection or the electric chair it’s still in the hands of somebody else. People are still upset and will miss their loved ones but they know that the person didn’t get a choice in the matter. There still maybe some unanswered questions like why did my loved one do something that got them the death penalty? They may actually get the answer to this question though because some people have years before it actually happens they are just sitting in a jail cell for those years.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1hqEEyAPdtM

Someone who has multiple personalities and “commits suicide” actually didn’t commit suicide. This is because in some cases the one personality is trying to get rid of the other not realizing when they do it they are killing themselves. It is pretty much murder. Though the parents are still left with psychological problems and are still confused about how this happened to their child. They may not understand that the person did not mean to “commit suicide” because they were trying to kill the other personality. This is still hard to understand and is still

Suicide

berbaby09 — Fri, 18 Dec 2009 13:08:54 +0000

Suicide is the act of killing one’s self. Although it is so much more than that and truly does a lot more than just ending one life. When discussing suicide no one mentions what effect the situation has on the family or what the “victim” was feeling at the time. Suicide is a psychological disorder for the “victim”. I feel it’s a psychological death for the family of the “victim”. Some also don’t discuss that the reason that someone might commit is so that someone else doesn’t kill them first. People who have never been in the situation don’t really know how people feel about the situation or what could have been happening in the “victims” life to make them commit suicide.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MvjEmRBuKiU

A person who wants to commit suicide may truly have a problem more than just wanting to die. They may feel that nobody cares about them or that everything in their life is going wrong. These are not reasons to commit suicide. They are reasons to find help. Though if reasons like this make you feel as though you’d be better off dead or that killing yourself is the only way out then you should find help. Many people have psychological disorders they don’t know about or they don’t want to admit that they have. Also some people don’t understand that committing suicide is a final thing, you can’t change your mind once you do it. This is an example of suicide because if just one person would say they cared they might save just one person. One person can change a whole life or situation. Teens usually commit suicide because they feel left out of alone. This is depression and it is a psychological disorder. They make many things to help treat depression. There are also things like bipolar that could make a person who seems healthy and happy commit suicide. They go from stages of being extremely happy to being depressed which they to make medications for. Therapists can usually help with such things. Therefore there is help available and anyone having any thoughts of hurting themselves should get help.

The parents and siblings of the “victim” will also have psychological issues in the end of the situation. The family is left with many unanswered questions. Why would you do this? No one really knows why someone would commit suicide and some are stuck forever trying to figure it out because they so badly want to know why they couldn’t change the outcome of the event. . For a parent who loses a child because of suicide they are left thinking they did something wrong or thinking that they could have helped if they would have only done this or that. Parents may also think why didn’t I know this was going to happen or I should have seen this coming. When a 19 year old man in the local area committed suicide his mother ended up in a psychiatric ward for awhile and still isn’t doing very well, she has been put on many medications and seems to be confused much of the time when she hadn’t been like that before. The dad ended up leaving the family. The man has 3 younger siblings whose lives have been drastically changed because of decisions he made. They are not allowed to be left alone because the mom is so scared that they will do the same thing as him. Though I’m sure he wasn’t thinking about them when he committed suicide. Whereas before these parents let their kids do whatever they wanted. They went everywhere alone or with friends without it even being a problem and now it’s a big deal if they go anywhere alone or with friends. It makes a parent wonder what they did wrong while raising their child and if their other children will do the same thing.

A person might want to commit suicide because they are scared someone will kill them and they would rather do it themselves before someone else gets the chance. This is still not a reason to commit suicide though because there are places to go to get help if you feel you are in danger. This still leaves the family devastated and confused. They want to know why they couldn’t help or stop it before hand. This is still suicide and can be avoided at all costs. This should never be the answer to any problem.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6Wcx2qM5C4g

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